... there are times he really really upsets me. and after 9 years of being together...... we argue mostly over nitpicky things. like tonight, he took one of supergirl's favorite cd out of his suitcase and handed it to me. it was extremely scratched up... i mean very beat up. i was surprised and immediately asked him how he scratched it up so badly? he replied with- why do you think it's me? it's probably the cd player! sigh..... of course this led to more back and forth bickering that led to nowhere. he pretty much blamed it on the car's dvd player and not the fact that he took it out of the cd player weeks ago and put it on the side of our cardoor sans cover, nor the fact that he had put it into his suitcase a week ago with the intention of bringing it into the house, but didn't until tonight! this just baffles me all the time. it's always always hard for superdad to admit that maybe his actions led up to the unsavory results! and really.. it's never my intention to 'blame' him, i just react to a lot of things upon contact. i'm a freakin' tired mom as it is! so seeing the badly scratched cd, which he handed to me, i immediately just asked how it came to that?! anyway, i tried to explain to him it's not my intention to accuse him of anything (accuse??!!) (which is what he says i'm doing) but to only acknowledge the fact that the cd is scratched and he'll take precaution to put it into our cd holder next time!!
every little thing is valuable to me, especially supergirl's fave cd! superdad figures it's just a cd. just a cd?! everything costs money thus is valuable, especially in these hard times.........
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